child services.
Children's voices and choices are vital in family litigation and family services because they offer unique insights into their needs, feelings, and experiences. When children have the opportunity to express themselves, it helps ensure that decisions are made with their best interests in mind, fostering a sense of agency and belonging. Listening to children not only empowers them but also allows families and professionals to better understand the emotional and relational dynamics at play. Including children's perspectives can lead to more effective and tailored support, creating a more supportive environment for their overall well-being and development.
All of the work that Talia accomplishes is in a consent-based framework. Force does not improve relationships, or support healthy attachment. Talia welcomes discussion regarding consent frameworks. She is an adult who was once a child that had parents who had immense difficulty co-parenting. She is also a bonus parent and a biological parent. Her lived experience fuels her perspective that children should have their voices heard, and their experiences seen. She also believes that children have the right to healthy parental relationships. This means that Talia strongly believes that parents (not children) are responsible for creating safer faces, places, and spaces for their children to have the opportunity for healthy parental relationships.
Consent is integral to working with children in a therapeutic environment, as it fosters a sense of autonomy and respect for their feelings and boundaries. Ensuring that children feel comfortable and willing to participate in their therapeutic journey enhances their trust in the process and the professional supporting them. Additionally, creating a safe space—both physically and emotionally—is essential for encouraging open communication and expression. When children know that their thoughts and emotions are valued and that they have control over their participation, they are more likely to engage fully in the therapeutic experience, leading to more effective outcomes.
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child-inclusive family mediation or child-inclusive facilitated discussions
*shuttle format only
Child-inclusive family mediation or child-inclusive facilitated discussion is a process that involves parents or guardians working collaboratively with a trained mediator to make decisions about family issues, while intentionally incorporating the perspectives and needs of their children. This approach recognizes that children are significant stakeholders in family dynamics and aims to ensure their voices are heard in matters that affect their lives.
Through individual sessions with the mediator, children can express their feelings, concerns, and wishes in a safe environment, while parents receive valuable insights into how their decisions may impact their child's well-being. Ultimately, child-inclusive family mediation seeks to foster healthier family relationships and promote positive outcomes for children.
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Talia will complete an intake with each co-parent separately.
Intakes typically cover what has happened in the past, what the current circumstances are, and what the hopes for the future may be.
Children cannot be on the premises when an intake takes places so please plan accordingly.
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Before getting started, the co-parents will sign documents that provide expectations of everyone involved.
These documents are pretty simple in nature, and she's happy to explain if a co-parent has questions.
Co-parents are always encouraged to see legal advice before signing documents.
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Payment for sessions must be made 72 hours prior to the sessions taking place.
The co-parent(s) paying for the sessions will receive an email with instructions on how to pay directly (online) prior to sessions.
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Talia will meet with each party (family member) one-on-one to discuss what they would like to accomplish in the family mediation, and how she can best support them.
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A colleague of Talia's (who is a clinical child/play or child/youth counsellor) will have a minimum of three (3) sessions with each child.
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Talia will conduct a child-inclusive family mediation.
The child(ren) will be represented by their clinical child/play or child/youth counsellor that was appointed for the process and any legal representation that acts solely for the child.
The other family members may attend without counsel or with counsel present.
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Child-Inclusive Family Mediation fees are as follows:
$199 one time administrative fee
$199 per hour per family member - intake, child counselling session, pre-mediation session
$299 per hour for Child-Inclusive Mediation being facilitated
$299 per Mediation Summary Report (which are mandatory for each child-inclusive family mediation process)
Payment must be made 24 hours prior to the service/support taking place.
The co-parent(s) paying for the service/support will receive an email with instructions on how to pay directly (online) prior to the service/support.
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Cancellation is possible 72 hours in advance will a full refund.
Cancellation within less than 72 hours but more than 24 hours will charge 50% of the fee.
Cancellation within less than 24 hours will charge 100% of the fee.
*Talia makes exceptions for parents who are under the influence, and choose that day to reduce harm to themselves or others by cancelling/rescheduling. There is no judgement in this, and in fact, she applauds this considerate decision - it is wholeheartedly in the best interests of your child(ren).
parenting time supervision
(court ordered or by agreement)
Parenting time supervision refers to the arrangement where one parent is allowed to spend time with their child under the supervision of a third party professional.
Supervised visits can help facilitate a relationship while supporting the child's best interests, and may transition to unsupervised visits as the co-parents’ circumstances improve.
A highly trained family law or family dynamics professional provides essential support for high conflict co-parents during parenting time supervision by ensuring a structured and neutral environment. Their expertise helps to mitigate potential conflicts, which can be particularly challenging in high-stress situations or in complex co-parenting circumstances.
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Talia will complete an intake with each co-parent separately.
Intakes typically cover what has happened in the past, what the current circumstances are, and what the hopes for the future may be.
Children cannot be on the premises when an intake takes places so please plan accordingly.
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Before getting started, the co-parents will sign documents that provide expectations of everyone involved.
These documents are pretty simple in nature, and she's happy to explain if a co-parent has questions.
Co-parents are always encouraged to see legal advice before signing documents.
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Payment for Parenting Time supervision or observation must be made 24 hours prior to the supervision or observation taking place.
The co-parent(s) paying for the supervision or observation will receive an email with instructions on how to pay directly (online) prior to supervision or observation.
There are monthly "flat fee" options for co-parents who have parenting time supervision or observation on a consistent basis.
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Parenting Time Supervision is either mutually agreed, directed by an agency, or court ordered.
Parenting Time Observation requested by a parent when they are concerned that their parenting time may be misrepresentated.
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Following each Parenting Time supervision or observation, Talia provides a report of what occurred throughout the Parenting Time.
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Parenting Time supervision or observation has the following cost structure:
$199 per month for admin
$49 per hour for supervision
$49 per report (which is a mandatory for each supervision/observation)
Additional fees for travel/gas if over 30 minutes from Langley, BC
Supervision or observation of exchanges has the following cost structure:
$199 per month for admin
$69 per exchange (report included)
Additional fees for travel/gas if over 30 minutes from Langley, BC
Payment must be made 24 hours prior to the service/support taking place.
The co-parent(s) paying for the service/support will receive an email with instructions on how to pay directly (online) prior to the service/support.
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Cancellation is possible 72 hours in advance will a full refund.
Cancellation within less than 72 hours but more than 24 hours of parenting time supervision or observation will charge 50% of the fee.
Cancellation within less than 24 hours of parenting time supervision or observation will charge 100% of the fee.
*Talia makes exceptions for parents who are under the influence, and choose that day to reduce harm to themselves or others by cancelling/rescheduling. There is no judgement in this, and in fact, she applauds this considerate decision - it is wholeheartedly in the best interests of your child(ren).
Orders will be followed regarding how parenting time is conducted.
All communication throughout the parenting time must be in English. If you speak another language, it may make sense to hire a supervisor or observer that speaks your language so you can more freely interact with your child(ren) if English is not entirely comfortable for you. Talia can direct you to other services/supports.
kiddos: clinical child/play or child/youth counselling
*in collaboration with the co-lab company & trusted clinical child/play and child/youth counsellors as well as social workers.
Children receiving counselling benefit from improved emotional regulation, enhanced coping skills, and a greater understanding of their thoughts and feelings. Establishing a rapport with a counsellor before any specific incident or concern arises creates a safe space for children to express themselves openly, fostering trust and reducing anxiety around discussing difficult topics without having to build that comfort level in the midst of a stressful circumstance. This pre-existing relationship allows children to feel more comfortable sharing their experiences when challenges do present themselves, resulting in more effective communication and support during critical moments.
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Talia will complete an intake with each co-parent separately.
Intakes typically cover what has happened in the past, what the current circumstances are, and what the hopes for the future may be.
Children cannot be on the premises when an intake takes places so please plan accordingly.
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Before getting started, the co-parents will sign documents that provide expectations of everyone involved.
These documents are pretty simple in nature, and she's happy to explain if a co-parent has questions.
Co-parents are always encouraged to see legal advice before signing documents.
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Payment for Parenting Time supervision or observation must be made 24 hours prior to the supervision or observation taking place.
The co-parent(s) paying for the supervision or observation will receive an email with instructions on how to pay directly (online) prior to supervision or observation.
There are monthly "flat fee" options for co-parents who have parenting time supervision or observation on a consistent basis.
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Your child(ren) will have their session(s) with a clinical child/play or child/youth counsellor.
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Reports include simple suggestions and a topline overview of what has been covered in therapy with your child(ren) will be provided every three (3) weeks.
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Intake is $250 for one (1) hour
Child/Play therapy - Hourly rates vary from $50 to $250 depending on the counsellor
Child/Youth therapy - Hourly rates vary from $50 to $250 depending on the counsellor
Payment must be made 24 hours prior to the service/support taking place.
The co-parent(s) paying for the service/support will receive an email with instructions on how to pay directly (online) prior to the service/support.
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Cancellation is possible 72 hours in advance will a full refund.
Cancellation within less than 72 hours but more than 24 hours of parenting time supervision or observation will charge 50% of the fee.
Cancellation within less than 24 hours of parenting time supervision or observation will charge 100% of the fee.
*Talia makes exceptions for parents who are under the influence, and choose that day to reduce harm to themselves or others by cancelling/rescheduling. There is no judgement in this, and in fact, she applauds this considerate decision - it is wholeheartedly in the best interests of your child(ren).
parenting time observation
(decision of the “observed” parent)
Parenting time observation refers to a process where a parent voluntarily agrees to have their interactions with their child monitored by a neutral third party. This initiative is often undertaken to provide assurance and clarity regarding the parent's conduct during visitation, particularly in situations where there may be allegations of inappropriate behaviour or concerns about the child's wellbeing.
These observations are designed to support positive parenting practices and can play a significant role in both informal and formal parenting time arrangements.
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Talia will complete an intake with each co-parent separately.
Intakes typically cover what has happened in the past, what the current circumstances are, and what the hopes for the future may be.
Children cannot be on the premises when an intake takes places so please plan accordingly.
-
Before getting started, the co-parents will sign documents that provide expectations of everyone involved.
These documents are pretty simple in nature, and she's happy to explain if a co-parent has questions.
Co-parents are always encouraged to see legal advice before signing documents.
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Payment for Parenting Time supervision or observation must be made 24 hours prior to the supervision or observation taking place.
The co-parent(s) paying for the supervision or observation will receive an email with instructions on how to pay directly (online) prior to supervision or observation.
There are monthly "flat fee" options for co-parents who have parenting time supervision or observation on a consistent basis.
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Parenting Time Supervision is either mutually agreed, directed by an agency, or court ordered.
Parenting Time Observation requested by a parent when they are concerned that their parenting time may be misrepresentated.
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Following each Parenting Time supervision or observation, Talia provides a report of what occurred throughout the Parenting Time.
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Parenting Time supervision or observation has the following cost structure:
$199 per month for admin
$49 per hour for supervision
$49 per report (which is a mandatory for each supervision/observation)
Additional fees for travel/gas if over 30 minutes from Langley, BC
Supervision or observation of exchanges has the following cost structure:
$199 per month for admin
$69 per exchange (report included)
Additional fees for travel/gas if over 30 minutes from Langley, BC
Payment must be made 24 hours prior to the service/support taking place.
The co-parent(s) paying for the service/support will receive an email with instructions on how to pay directly (online) prior to the service/support.
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Cancellation is possible 72 hours in advance will a full refund.
Cancellation within less than 72 hours but more than 24 hours of parenting time supervision or observation will charge 50% of the fee.
Cancellation within less than 24 hours of parenting time supervision or observation will charge 100% of the fee.
*Talia makes exceptions for parents who are under the influence, and choose that day to reduce harm to themselves or others by cancelling/rescheduling. There is no judgement in this, and in fact, she applauds this considerate decision - it is wholeheartedly in the best interests of your child(ren).
Orders will be followed regarding how parenting time is conducted.
All communication throughout the parenting time must be in English. If you speak another language, it may make sense to hire a supervisor or observer that speaks your language so you can more freely interact with your child(ren) if English is not entirely comfortable for you. Talia can direct you to other services/supports.